Today, I want to tackle a controversial topic: feminism. Yes, I know you’re wondering, what is the only thing feminism has truly achieved? The answer, based on observable trends and statistics, may be simpler than you think. The harsh reality? Feminism has predominantly made women unhappy. Let’s break this down and explore why.
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The Roots of Unhappiness
Feminism, at its core, has cultivated a divide between men and women. It promotes a narrative that encourages women to resent men. But here’s the undeniable truth: most women, at some point in their lives, desire to have children. This biological urge is deeply ingrained, affecting the vast majority of women. For this, a man’s role becomes significant — not just in conception, but in parenting.
Data shows that children raised in homes with both parents — father and mother — fare better in school, relationships, and life overall. Growing up without a father figure, as I did, has taught me firsthand the struggles of understanding masculinity, femininity, and the balance between the two.
Feminism’s War on Motherhood
Another significant issue is how feminism has distorted the perception of motherhood. Feminism often portrays children as burdens, perpetuating myths like “kids will ruin your body” or “your sex life will suffer.” But let’s set the record straight: these claims are largely unfounded. Many women find renewed confidence in their bodies after childbirth, and physical changes, like wider hips and fuller breasts, can even enhance their appearance.
Moreover, children are not a hindrance — they are a blessing. They help us grow, challenge us, and bring unparalleled joy to our lives. Few, if any, people on their deathbeds regret having children; instead, they wish they’d had more.
The Misunderstood Role of Submission
One of the most maligned concepts in modern society is the idea of submission within marriage. Feminism paints this as oppression, but in reality, submission does not equate to being a doormat. It simply means allowing one party — traditionally the husband — to take the lead in certain areas. This provides women the freedom to focus on their children, home, and personal growth without the added stress of worrying about finances, politics, or external pressures.
Submission also aligns with Biblical teachings, which instruct women to submit to their husbands and men to love their wives as Christ loves the church. This mutual commitment fosters harmony and stability within a marriage.
A Proven Formula for Success
The statistics are telling. Traditional Christian marriages, where roles are clearly defined, boast a divorce rate of just 1% among couples who pray together daily. Contrast this with the staggering 60% divorce rate in marriages embracing modern equality. The difference is undeniable.
Traditional gender roles have worked for thousands of years, yielding strong families, successful societies, and happy individuals. The modern experiment of feminist ideals has yet to demonstrate similar success.
The Historical Perspective
It’s important to note that feminism wasn’t born out of women’s desires. For instance, historical records reveal that many women initially opposed gaining the right to vote because it came with responsibilities like military drafts. They preferred focusing on their families and homes — a challenging yet fulfilling role.
Being a stay-at-home mom is far from easy. Managing a household and raising children is a full-time job, arguably more demanding than many high-paying careers. Dismissing this role undermines its importance and the strength it requires.
Feminism’s Legacy
So, what has feminism truly achieved? It has made women question their nature, their roles, and their happiness. By promoting the rejection of traditional roles, feminism has stripped many women of the joy found in motherhood, submission, and partnership.
This is not to say that every woman must conform to traditional roles. Those who wish to pursue careers or live differently are free to do so. But let’s not demonize the path that has brought happiness and fulfillment to countless generations of women.
A Final Thought
To the men reading this: you cannot force a feminist-influenced woman to change overnight. But through love, patience, and honest conversations, you can help her rediscover the joys of her feminine nature. And to everyone, let’s remember this: living in harmony with God’s design brings true happiness.
Before committing to a relationship or marriage, have open conversations about these values. It’s better to address these issues upfront than to face painful consequences later.
In the end, the choice is yours, but the evidence is clear. Traditional roles worked for millennia, fostering happy families and strong societies. Why should we abandon what has proven to bring joy and fulfillment? Let’s reflect and consider what truly matters.
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